"My husband looks irresistible when he is up to his elbows in dishwater, just the sight of my man's muscular forearms all sudsy and glistening from the liquid joy bubbles sets me ablaze. My heartbeat quickens as he reaches up,up, up to put away the glasses!"
Guys, if you wonder what happened to the frisky little kitten you married, the hot tamale with whom you could not be left alone for more than five minutes, without roving fingers and wanting kisses then you are going to want to pay close attention here:
The fire that once drew you in and kept you burning for her all the years, has been tempered by dinner dishes, two hundred thousand pound of dirty laundry, your screaming babies, and Lysol toilet bowl cleaner. Try as we might to be your superwoman, the libido suffers.
"Don't fret my pets," all is not lost for you (men) hold the answer to the age old question,
What do women want?
Women want relief, and we are willing to pay handsomely for it. All your woman needs is more time to make herself feel sexy! Believe me every time, the two of you have had that "mind blowing, energy sapping, earth shattering,"sexual experience it was because she had the time to mentally play out each kiss, each nibble, and each stroke in her mind. A woman will plan her seduction while taking a long hot bath, while shaving her legs, or while enjoying a massage. The more time a woman has to imagine the experience, to set the stage, and prepare herself, the better the "loving."
Men, here is a quick list of sure fire ways to spark your woman's sexuality.
1. Wash and fold laundry, just before her next scheduled laundry day.
Try leaving the folded laundry in the laundry room, she will be pleasantly surprised to find the chore completed. Then suggest a bath (together) for use of the extra time.
2. Try taking the initiative and wash the lunch dishes. Suggest an afternoon pedicure (your treat).
As she closes her eyes, and allow the warm water to rush over her tootsies, thoughts of returning the pleasure to her "stolen moments hero."
3. Spontaneous massages, are the best!
While your woman tells about the stresses of her day, apply gentle pressure at the base of her spine. Make slow,strong, deliberate circles. From the shoulders down, use both hands, and repeat this process over the entire body if possible.
OK guys, now that your armed, Go make Magic!
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